Long time no blog...

What have I been up to?  Well, I took on a juicy contract with a fancy software company that saw me flying around the country non-stop.  So financially things have been well, although obviously this had an impact on my free time.

The last extension has me finishing up today.  I just received another offer through till early April 2011 which I'm going to have a think about over the festive break.

I've also been travelling with my iPad.  This is an amazing device for reading stuff, but not much fun writing anything longer than a one line email or status update.  As a result I have been keeping up to date but not so much forum or blog posting.

As you can imagine plenty has happened and I've got loads of stories to tell you about.

The infamous same night MFFFF 5 some report
The big breakup
German girl in Vegas
MILF
Deaf Brazillian girl
South America, Argentina and Brazil (Florinapolis)
German girl in Brazil
Australian girl in Brazil - locked up abroad

These reports are the closest thing I have to a personal journal and I do enjoy writing them and reading them down the track.  Problem is though I'm such a perfectionsit bastard I spent too much time writing them up.  I'm aiming for two a month, let's see how 2011 goes.

Have a great Christmas.


Dale P.

Dale P. is in LA!

Hey guys what's up.

Just a quick note to say I'm in LA for a couple weeks to do a bit of coaching with Brad, Jake and the boys.

I've already met with some of the Pickup Mansion students...if you're in the LA area hopefully I'll catch you around soon.

Great article - 'Why It Is Wise to Worship a Woman'

Hey guys,

Just read this article on Huffington Post.  It's a great read - especially the part about stepping through the gates.  Highly recommended.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/arjuna-ardagh/goddess-worship_b_660896.html

Step through another gate with your commitment, with your attention, with the small seedlings of devotion, and she'll open her heart to you more. She'll share with you her insecurities, the way that she's been hurt, her deepest longings. Some men will back away at this point. They realize that the price they must pay to go deeper is more than they are willing to give. They start to feel a responsibility. But for those few who step though another gate, they come to discover her loyalty, her willingness to stick with you no matter what, her willingness to raise your children, stick up for you in conversation, and, if you are lucky, even pick up your dirty socks now and then. And so it goes on. You've got the gist by now.

Enjoy.  As always I'd like to hear your comments.

Dale P.

'Results anxiety' and having realistic expectations

Just got a newsletter the other day from one of the larger dating coach companies and had to write this blog post.

You see, as per 99% of the marketing out there, it's my gut feel this company exaggerates their student success rate.

I'm not going to name names, and hell, it's a pretty hard thing to prove either way so what's the point.

My purpose here is not to bag out some other mob.  I've got more productive things to do with my time.  

My purpose here is to dispel any unrealistic views on what you can expect from pick up and to spare you from the stress that these views will give you.

You see, it's a personal gripe for me because once upon a time I fell for it myself.  Back in 2007 I reached a stage where I was getting some really good results.  Sure, I wasn't perfect.  I laid 20 girls that year and they were some cute/cool girls, but they weren't the model looking girls I saw plastered all over the dating company websites.  I wasn't at the stage where I could walk into a club, say a few things, snap my fingers and walk out with the hottest 10 each week.

So I started to wonder.  Well, I started to more than wonder.  I started to experience 'results anxiety'.  Damn, from what I was reading these dudes are out there and they are OWNING it and having threesomes with models, and here I was, standing around with my cock in my hand back in Australia laying an 8 once or twice a month.  

So I made the trek to LA to see what I could learn.  

Whilst there I got the chance to sarge with some celebrity PUAs.  Most of them were really cool guys and I ended up coming friends with some.  Now, as expected, these guys had seriously awesome game, although anyone thinking gurus have MLTRs with penthouse pets are dreaming.  

My biggest realisation during my time there was that I had some unrealistic views on what success in this area looks like.

Here are some real world results I've personally verified:

Bootcamp with Company 1 - 8 guys, 3 instructors, regular 3 day/night course

Results - 3 students had makeouts, one had a lay 2 days later from a girl met on course (note, this was a pretty advanced student).

Bootcamp with Company 2 - 6 guys, 2 live-in instructors, 14 days straight teaching and traveling around.

Results - Had girls back home a few times but zero lays.

Bootcamp with Company 3 - 2 guys, 1 instructor, regular 3 day/night course

Results - both students had makeouts, 1 got laid, 1 got to 3rd base (both advanced students).

Bootcamp with Company 4 - 3 guys, 2 instructors, regular 3 day/night course

Results - one advanced student had a few makeouts.

All those companies are big name companies you probably have heard of.  

I'm sure if you do a bit of detective work you'll find similar stories.  So any claims about %'s of students getting laid that are wildly different to the above - do take with a huge grain of salt.

Contact actual guys who went on the course and speak to them if possible.  Anyone whose only source of information about a company you take is from an online forum that same company owns, moderates and censors... well... don't be surprised if you're let down later on.

So when the Underground Dating Seminar took 6 guys out in Chicago on a regular 2-3 day workshop and 4 of them got laid off cold approach - that's something REALLY special.  Seems like many companies are claiming this all the time.

You were probably attracted to our teachings because of our 'no-BS marketing' and raw approach in the first place.  Sure, we've got the flashy website now but for years it was pretty basic.  As a boutique operation our company prides itself on great results and integrity and there is no exaggeration in our field reports or marketing.  

We get amazing results with students at a consistent rate, but we're not going to delude them.  We're only setting them up for disappointment if we did.

Dale P.

Guest LR from Sharky - 'Texta girl'

Got a guest blog post for you today.  This one is from Sharky, one of the 30/30 boys.  He's about 1/2 way through now and just had his first same night lay since joining!  A real cute girl too.

Over to Sharky...

LR: Texta girl (aka Marker girl for our US readers - Dale P.).

I went out with a work mate and some of his friends. After watching them get very drunk I bailed from the cock-laden sports bar and walked to a venue that promised lots of girls. The place was packed; I walked in and cruised around checking what was on offer.

Upstairs was mainly guys watching the world cup soccer so I headed back down to the bar and dance floor area. I saw a real cute, slightly bitchy looking girl leaning against a pole and though it would be good to start with a blow out to pump my state, which wasn’t exactly high after being around a few drunk guys for the past 2 hours.

Opened with a blend of Brad’s Disney opener, which kind of morphed into Glenn P’s version of it. The bitchyness melted away and the conversation went sexual very quick. I had just listened to the 30/30 month 7 cd’s so had that on my mind and some of the topics made for great early sexual conversation. I was also experimenting with mentally escalating her with dirty talk. We moved away from the noise and the conversation got a lot more personal. I made a few cold reads, which were spot on. Logistics were perfect as she was a lone wolf and had just bailed on a hens night. I made her sit on her hands and continued, we seemed to have everything in common and it reached a point where she couldn’t take it anymore and grabbed me and started making out.  After about 20 more minutes of talking and escalating, she was so hot and bothered she dragged me to the dance floor so she could get more physical. I didn’t let this go on for to long before I pulled her head back by her hair and said, come with me right in her ear. I then walked her outside and jumped in a cab to my place.

Once there I threw her on my bed and started building the sexual tension. I told her to tell me about her sexual fantasies, slowly and in as much detail as she could. She told me about how she loved the feeling of a nikko pen on her skin and that she wanted to be drawn on, all over her body. I told her that I would be back in a minute and when I returned she was to have nothing on but her bra and panties.

I left my room and found a massive blue marking pen. When I got back she was exactly how I told her to be. I then proceeded to slowly draw all over her, writing dirty stuff, my name, coloring in random areas and she loved it.  She moaned when I ran the pen down her ass crack and up the front over her clit (she still had her panties on). I was having lots of fun and laughing to myself . We then had sex, slept for a while and woke up for round two. The following morning she couldn’t believe that she had told me about her fantasy and that I had done it, she said she would remember it forever!

After lying around and talking for a few hours while I played with her amazing boobs that barely fit in a d cup, I drove her home and dropped her at her parents place, covered in blue pen and missing her underwear! I later found these after cleaning up the clothes and crap that were thrown around my room, they are covered in blue pen, what a reminder for a crazy night.

This was my first SNL since joining 30/30 and the third girl I have closed in the month since my 1 on 1 with Dale. I am behind on my approaches for the month but that’s ok, because my interactions are going a lot further now, which is what its all about. I’ll finish this months approaches this week then move onto the next month of the program.

Mate this is awesome stuff.  Sounds like you had a great time and she had a great time.  This is what it's all about in my opinion.  How many girls go through life without ever being able to experience their fantasies for real?

Being able to do these is a great skill to have.  Knowing that you can go out, meet a girl for the first time and end up having a mutually pleasurable experience is a wonderful feeling.  Giving a girl a great experience will mean she's not going to forget you in a hurry.  Sometimes good sex can be hard to find for girls (sure... plenty of bad sex is around on offer from the wrong types of guys).

Sharky is a dedicated student who is now starting to enjoy the results of his hard work he's put in over the past 6 months.  Keep up the good work and don't forget that photo next time! ;)


Dale P.

LR - Black belt ninja shit

This is a bit of a weird LR, I feel uncomfortable about writing it up.

I went out with SHBPrimary and her best friend. Her best friend had just starting seeing this new guy and we were meeting up with him and his friends. The venue was an inner city pub with live music that's popular with backpackers and bogans.

‘His friends’ included two other guys and another, rather young, cute, girl who I’ll call HBNorway. We all met and vibed well. It soon became apparent that HBNorway was keen on meeting a man tonight. She (like many girls) thought she’d leverage SHBPrimarys looks ask her to hit up the dance floor to find someone. I stayed and chatted with the guys instead.

A while later HBNorway and SHBPrimary rejoined us with a little fan club in tow. I’m guessing HBNorway had a dancefloor make out with this reasonably good looking but rather drunk guy. He didn’t speak much nor did he come across as an intellectual type (if you know what I mean). SHBPrimary introduced me as her boyfriend to the other orbiters and they all disappeared. The drunk guy stayed around, swaying whilst drinking water 'Ooohhh, better slow down on the booze, I'm gunna need to get it up later!' thinking that he was in with HBNorway. Clever guys like us know that it was just too early in the night for a pull, plus he had no idea (nor ability in his state) on logistics.

At this stage SHBPrimary was in an upset state. She suffers from a bit of anxiety and can be uptight. It can cause her to become flustered at times. To be fair to her she annoyed at two main things, firstly being continuously hit on and groped at in a very sloppy and aggressive on the dancefloor (lots of guys ‘bumping into her’ and having a little feel whilst trying to ‘get past her’) and secondly she was pissed off at her best friend because she shared a joint and was messy from that and too much booze.

SHBPrimary said she had had enough of this place, was tired and wanted to leave. I was having a great time so I was trying to convince her to stay a little longer. She didn’t want to. She was fed up, pissed off, so she left and stormed off to her car. I followed out asking her to stay and we ended up having an argument. She is a magnificently hot, lovely and wholesome girl, although her inability to just ‘be cool’ at times is a constant source of stress in our relationship. She can get sulky or distressed and fly off the handle (publicly) at things she ‘deems inappropriate’ and this really pisses me off. A book I read on female psychology says this is typical of a girl with lower self esteem. I’m not asking her to partake in or even be totally OK with any illicit or otherwise ‘unacceptable’ activities (such as me being friends with an ex), I’d just prefer she didn’t act like a stupid whiny 16 year old about the whole situation. In the end I just said, ‘Fine, see you later then’ and she drove home. She was supposed to be staying the night at mine. Ah well.

I rejoined the others. At the news of SHBPrimary leaving HBNorways eyes widened. Almost instantly she was all over me, touchy, flirty. This was all well and good - hey, she was a nice and fun girl to talk with, but I can’t have this going on in front of SHBPrimary’s best friend and her boyfriend.

I asked HBNorway for some chewing gum. She only had one piece left so I suggested we half it. She said ‘Sure, we can do that, I can't fit the whole thing in my mouth usually’. SHBPrimarys best friend and her boyfriend rolled their eyes at this comment. This flirty was just way too over the top so I felt I had to shake my head in disapproval say to her ‘I can’t believe you just said that'. This was definitely a diss to her and I think she was hurt a bit by it. I should have just said ‘Hey, you can’t say things like that’ and gave her a flirty smile. I was a bit too harsh in my response to her.

A few minutes later she’s talking with some big AMOG guy. They were both right into each other, leaning in, touching each other, very flirty conversation. She’s obviously thought ‘well, I’m going to fuck some guy tonight, so I’ll just pick another one!’, and if this guy didn’t fuck anything up it would be him. At this stage I’m thinking to myself, damn, that girl was really hot, I had her and now she’s slipped through my fingers. If I were to do something I’d have to be really clever about this. I just couldn’t make a move in front of everyone.

Something inside me woke up. My inner ninja. When I first met her I noticed she was wearing a ring.

I re-opened her: 'Hey, so when I first saw you I saw this ring on your finger and thought you were engaged'.
HBNorway ‘No, that’s the wrong finger, if I were married it would be on this hand’.
Me: ‘Nah, I think you got it all wrong. It should be that finger’.

All the while I was using my body to cut out the AMOG. He tried to join into the conversation but I did the usual block out and ignore, ignore, ignore. His value was dropping as he just stood around.

She turned and squeezed AMOGs hand and nodded, signalling to him 'Don't worry, it's still on between me and you'.

The thing is this AMOG guy did have some game. He asked the same wedding ring question to moving 3 set of cute girls and merged them with us. Nice move. I thought ‘I’ve got to control this whole group now’, so I grabbed HBNorways hand, held it in the traditional wedding 'I do' pose and asked the 3 set 'So… if I take this ring off this finger and place it here …' ‘That’s right, YOU’RE MARRIED NOW!’ the 3 set chimed. 'OH NO!’, I cried, ‘I was tricked! Help me!! I only wanted to a one night stand!' HBNorway loved the joke and playfully hit and grabbed at me. That’s it, I’ve hooked her again. AMOG value, dropping…

At this stage AMOG tried to recover HBNorway 'Oh, your married, it's all over now!'. Acknowledging him for the first time and I look at him and say 'Yeah, it's all over...'. I had to bite my tongue not to add '...for you!'. This was a notoriously rough venue and I didn’t want to push it. During this whole performance I actually thought this guy was going to deck me – I’m no pushover but he was a pretty solid guy standing a good 3 inches taller than me.

He was still wandering around in the background with a confused look on his face. Time for my finishing move.

I thought I’d create a little emergency. SHBPrimary's best friend wasn't feeling well and couldn't be found.

Me: ‘HBNorway, we need your help! We can’t find SHBPrimaryBestFriend, she’s feeling really sick and we need you to check the female restrooms! Quick, she could be passed out somewhere!’

HBNorway jumps into action with a sense of urgency.

Me: ‘OK, lets go look for her this way’.

HBNorway turned to AMOG and started to explain how she’s sorry and she has to go. He number closed her. No worries I thought, you get the number, I’ll fuck her! He disappeared into the crowd.

I grabbed HBNorway’s hand and headed into the overcrowded dancefloor. She firmly grasped my hand in return. I guided her through the crowd with my hands around her waist. Once in the middle of the dancefloor in a sea of people I turned to her and said ‘Are you good at keeping secrets?’. She nodded, knowing what was about to happen. We then made out with each other just a little. She grabbed at my crotch and I felt up her breasts. I told her ‘OK, that’s all you get for now!’ and we headed back.

We found SHBPrimaryBestFriend and her boyfriend and were standing out the front where the taxi’s are. Her BF decided to take her for a walk to get some fresh air to help her feel better. At this stage I notice it's just me and HBNorway. This window of opportunity wasn’t going to last so I had to act quick. I grabbed HBNorway’s hand, pushed in front of a bunch of dudes that were waiting in line and jumped in a cab... ‘Sorry guys, my girlfriend is feeling really sick’. I quickly gave HBNorway a run down of what is going to happen. ‘OK, you’re coming to mine now – but if anyone asks, we just got really tired and
both caught our own taxi’s home’.

During the chat in the taxi on the way home HBNorway told me how she was impressed how I handled the logistics and orchestrated the whole thing.

I took her into my bedroom to show her this “DVD”. Yeah, it’s one of those DVD’s I can only play on the computer...

Since her buying temp was already high there was almost no LMR, other than ‘I’ll take my own pants off’. I can’t believe how loud she talks, I really thought my housemates overheard (which would be BAD because they’re friends with SHBPrimary). For such a cute petit girl she was VERY direct and dominant in the bedroom. ‘Fuck my pussy harder then come!’. Strange thing is I fucked her through her undies and she never let me take them off. Nor go down on her, her give me head, take off her top or do any other position other than missionary. A bit weird – maybe she was ‘saving’ those things to lure me into a relationship of sorts. I don’t know how the hell that would work, she’s well aware I’ve got stuff going on. Either that or she’s just not adventurous in the sack. I don’t think it was because she was self conscious – she’s got a pretty hot body.

That next day I felt pretty guilty.

On the bright side I pulled of some amazing black belt pickup shit. Disarmed an AMOG, attracted and laid a really hot girl, managed some really tricky logistics and nobody saw a thing. A real high point and a culmination of my skills and effort I’ve invested into this area.

The thing is when you’re with a SHB many times you can’t trust other guys to keep any of your ‘additional activities’ to themselves. Plenty of them would rat you out in a second if it meant getting closer to her, especially ones you don’t really know. For some guys it’s a simple matter of your value to them as a buddy and her value to them as a potential girlfriend. So unless you’re a damn good friend then you have to be careful.

On the downside I’m wondering if I’m too deep into this pickup thing. Fair enough, I was a little buzzed, but will I ever be happy enough with just one girl enough to raise a family? Was it a pride thing? – I just had to get that girl. What I did was pretty risky and the fallout would be massive.

Tried to call SHBPrimary last night, no answer. Will call her again today. As much as her stupid anxiety shit pisses me off I do love her deeply. I'm feeling massive guilt, it's one thing to pick up some girl and fuck her, it's another to do it to my girls friends' friends' friend when I'm out with her that night. HBNorway knows (and agrees) to keep this on the down low. To the best of my knowledge no one saw us so this should be cool.

Online Dating

I still had 16 'contact stamps' on this paid online dating website so I thought what the hell. Over the past week I had been sending virtual kisses (signs of interest, free to send) to a few girls on the site. Some replied, and I contacted those.

Right now I’ve got 4 new prospects in the pipe (i.e. on the phone, ready to meet up). This is more than enough to deal with at one time for me.

Once I’ve setup my profile, the formula I like to follow is this:
1. Email (include something specific so you don’t look like a cut n paste)
2. They email back
3. I email back with phone details and ask them to text me (takes the pressure off, it’s easy for a girl to send a text and then I get their number)
4. They text me and then I call them
5. Have a 20min or so chat, get to know them, then one of us will usually suggest to meet up.

I think it’s important to progress things quickly here. Online dating can be a big waste of time and some girls are on there without much real intention, motivation or courage to actually meet someone. You also don’t want to put in too much effort only to find out the girl is much larger / uglier than portrayed online or has intimacy issues. So you want to filter them in or out quickly. I like to get them on the phone as soon as I can (but not the first email because I think that appears a little too needy). If a girl isn’t willing to get on the phone then there is no hope on even meeting her.

I went through a little exercise and created a fake female profile on two sites. I learnt a lot from this.

The main things were:
a) any even remotely attractive woman gets bombarded with contact,
b) most of the guys on the sites are losers and
c) many of the emails are obvious generic cut and paste jobs
d) the sites communication model is important. A monthly payment for unlimited contacts system just results in mass spammage. A pay per contact system is much better.

Sources of online dates
Popular pay dating sites.
Pros – Girls can be more ‘serious’ about meeting up, More popular = more girls online.
Cons – Girl’s aren’t getting enough male attention offline, may mean they’re not all that. Costs money.

Free dating sites.
Pros – Free. Girls are somewhat serious about meeting up and the whole online dating thing.
Cons - Less popular means less users, not advertised on TV, usually clunkier to use.

Social Networking sites – Facebook, MySpace, etc.
Pros – Just about every girl is on one or both of these, including all the very hot ones. Easy to get a ‘Facebook close’.
Cons – Girls aren’t actively dating. Can be slow. Can be the low value wussy / creepy Facebook stalker.

Online special interest forums not relating to dating
Pros – Girls aren’t actively dating (i.e. not neces
Cons – very low chances

Motivations and profile of women on dating sites

• Validation / Boredom (usually these are time wasters, many times low self esteem)
• Lonely (new to area)
• Has a lifestyle where she is exposed to little suitable men (a small or female dominated workplace, girl is not very social, perhaps a suburban girl with a boring suburban job)
• Getting older, bio clock is ticking – woman hits 30 or 35.
• Doesn’t have guys approach them in bars, clubs at work or on the street (i.e. unattractive).
• Girl is highly sexual and looking to get laid
• Girl is looking for ‘her soulmate’ and doesn’t like bars / clubs.

It’s my experience most girls fall into one or more of the above categories. It's worth keeping these motivations in mind as they can help you calibrate.

As a result in my personal opinion it’s quite rare to find a young, high quality, attractive, sexual, confident smart woman (i.e a true 10) on the site and if you could she’d be flooded with contacts that she’d probably unsubscribe from it within a few days. A girl like this would have more than enough propositions day to day than she could handle. This is the case at least in Australia although there are always exceptions of course. I once found a very attractive flight attendant who was also a ballet dancer. We had 3 or 4 emails back and forth, all very positive, fun and flirty. Then unexpectedly she de-registered from the site before we had traded any contact information. A similar thing has happened 2 or 3 times now. Don’t let this happen to you!

A girl from out of town can be great. If you can give her a good time by showing her around to a few cool places, it’s a win-win. You can play tour guide. She gets to have an exciting time finding new places she wouldn’t have otherwise known about. Anyone who’s moved to a new town knows how much fun this can be.

A 30-35 ‘clocks ticking!’ good girl who is obviously looking for something long term can work, although it’s probably in neither of your bests interests to go for these girls unless you’re serious about something long term too. Don’t cross them off the list completely though, you can be their ‘sex toy’ whilst they’re looking for Mr Right. I’ve been with one, banged her within 2 hours and then she freaked out and had buyers remorse. She’s still keen on me but she keeps insisting on the ‘slow path’ (courting, etc). As I’m just interested in something physical (the sex was really good!) it’s ended up in a bit of a stalemate. Funny story – she sent me a text saying ‘I feel like a booty call’. To which I replied ‘Sure, come over’. She was actually saying that she felt like slut, not that she was up for some fun.

I much prefer the younger, 22-25 year olds who are just up for a new experiences.


The Report

I called a few to meet up on Sunday evening for a little 20 minute evaluation date. I tried to set 3 up. One didn’t answer, another was keen so we arranged to meet and another was a maybe.

I spent half an hour on the phone the two girls who did answer. This built comfort and helped me determine if they’re girls who I’d be interested in.

I headed down the street to meet up with SlimBlonde30. Just as I arrived about 3 minutes before we agreed I received a text saying she’s cut two of her fingers really bad and had to cancel. I texted back, 'No worries, another time. I'll be here just doing my shopping then so if things change in the next 30 get in touch'. She called a few minutes later to apologise profusely and insist it really happened. I told her to checkout the Slap Chop video on YouTube.

I did my weekly shopping and the 'maybe' girl texted me and said she's keen to meet. As she was without a car I drove around to pick her up. She was pretty cute, tall. She had nice skin and looked like she might be a 1/10th Asian or something.

I took her to this cool bar where they do amazing $4 pizzas. A casual place, ultra hip. I grabbed a couch where we could sit side by side to allow for some casual touching. Sexual talk, are you a good cook/rich/in bed?, point system – 'If you get 10 points you can see me again'. She asked 'What do I get if I get 100 points?', role reversals, lots of kino.

We had two drinks here, I bought the first, she bought the second round. I then thought I'd take her to another venue to create a greater number of imprints of us together (i.e. that we've known each other for longer than we actually have).

Whilst waiting at a traffic crossing I got right up close to her and gave her a little kiss. Just a teaser.

We had another drink at venue 2 on plush seats next to the fireplace. During this time I was talking up my apartment, how it's 50's style, it's view, etc.

We walked back to the car and I just started driving to my place. Only about halfway there she asked 'So where are we heading?' I said 'To check out the view!'. She said 'Oh, I can't remember us saying we'll go there but sounds good'. Lead, lead, lead. I also dropped in ‘Can’t stay long, have to work next day’.

Put on my Bobby Womack station on Last.fm and grabbed us both a drink. Then we had the usual tour of house which starts with the balcony for another very quick kiss and ends in bedroom.

From there it was pretty straightforward, she sat on the bed and was an active participant in the process. I have a new thing where I say 'OK I'll let you up on my bed just for a few minutes but only if you take your boots off' (as if she just asked to come on my bed). Wash rinse repeat x 3-4. Agreed with her, ‘Yeah, I was about to say that, no sex tonight’.

Once she stopped and said ‘Why do you want to sleep with me? You don’t even know me.’ That was interesting that she vocalised what so many girls are thinking at this point. They need a reason other than the fact that they have a vagina, otherwise you’re just a guy who’ll fuck anything (i.e. a guy who doesn’t have standards). This is what is meant by qualification (i.e. letting her know why she’s won you over), a step I hadn’t consciously executed. Actually, I wasn’t consciously executing anything. This whole pickup was natural and auto pilot, I had already fucked other girls so many times on the weekend my dick was sore so I wasn’t even really caring if we hooked up or not. It's nice to be with a girl who knows what she wants. She came, I came, good times.

In summary, gaming girls online can be the lazy mans method and there is no need to approach. You can also do it at work. It's also a good way for getting practise dates if you can’t get any or a few girls in the rotation if you need some more. The downsides are that it's inefficient and can easily be a waste of time and energy. Can plan a nice day 2 for a girl who turns out to be fat / ugly / boring / non-sexual / psycho or all of the above. Also, the chances of getting an all round 10 are on the low side, although it's possible. Having said all that, of those girls I have met up with and wanted to sleep with I've had a huge success rate, although that's pretty similar with other methods of meeting girls.

It is MUCH more efficient to cold approach (or social circle for that matter). You know they're hot straight away and after a little chat you can quickly get an idea if they're interesting and/or sexual, rather than it being long drawn out process of courting via email. I think online supplements other methods nicely but not to be relied on as your only source for meeting women. In cold approach you separate yourselves from the masses of guys who simply don't have the balls which gives you a big advantage. Online can also cost money, where cold approach can be free. I feel I'm only good at this as I’ve mastered all other steps.

Keen to hear anyone elses tips, thoughts, experiences - add a comment below!


Dale P.